Remember that song in the Peanuts Happiness is ... <check it out here on YouTube! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKKjqzkGo3o> ... Today while at Trader Joes the cashier and I had a meaningful if not fleeting exchange of words of words on being happy;.
There is no grreat mystery to being happy, and for the most part "people are as happy as they choose to be"; this is a quote attributed to Abraham Lincoln. Happiness is within easy reach of us all, though we don't always appreciate this fact.
While studying comparative religions yearts ago, I stumbled upon the the secret to happiness, it is simply the Golden Rule, a thread through every religion on earth, the simple truth: Treat others as you would like to be treated!
That's it, the simple secret to truly being happy. Like a stick thrown to a dog, love and kindness keep coming back. When we make others happy, we make ourselveas happy.
No big mystery here. One's greatest goals should be simply be to Have a good life, with friends that they love, and who love them in return!